Hi! I heard you that you will be leaving :( Though we have never spoken, I'm honestly sad now cause I see the whole fandom as a family, for good or for bad. Seeing you go won't be easy, but if you are happy then that's all that really matters. I wish you happiness for the rest of your days, I'll miss ya!
Aww well I thank you very much, nonnie, and appreciate your sweet words. I wish you all the same. Lots of love and hugs too! I’ll miss you too.
Awww I just saw you're leaving! *hugs* We'll miss you! :( Are you going to delete your blog or let it stay for record's sake?
*hugs* Thank you, nonnie. You’re very sweet.
I’ll miss you all too. And, no, the blog is not going anywhere. I’m leaving it up so that my followers can always go back to it and look at the older posts. So it can kind of be a little positive sanctuary for people when needed. :)
You're leaving?! Like leaving the fandom or tumblr? Either way I'll miss you and you're amazingness!! I wish you the best, remember that happy ending aren't always what we think they will be ;)
Hi nonnie. I’m sorry to say it, but yes I am leaving tumblr permanently and in a way just distancing myself from the fandom. I’m staying on until tomorrow’s episode just to say goodbye and collect contact info from people I’ve met on here who wish to keep contact.
I’ll still write my fan fictions, so if you’re one of my readers don’t worry about that. And I am for sure still watching the show.
In a way I’m only distancing myself from the more hateful sides of the fandom, mainly being tumblr and twitter. I’ll still be in the fandom in like a “spiritual” sense.
I’ll miss you too, sweetie. I wish you just the same! Thank you. Lots of love and hugs to you, honey. <3
You're right about everything you've said about the ouat fandom... It's sad that you are leaving... I'm going to miss you even that i've barely talked with you! I wish a lot of positive energy for the rest of your life! <3
Thank you for your kind words, lovely anon friend. I appreciate them very much. And though I don’t know who you are, I’ll miss you. Know that you are a very sweet person. <3 Stay positive and I wish you the best as well. Lots of love and hugs, sweetie.
This is going to be my final message on tumblr. I apologize to all of the wonderful and amazing people I’ve met here, but unfortunately I can’t handle this fandom anymore. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a group of people be more vicious, rude and selfish to one another in my life. And that is far beyond sad because when I joined this fandom, I was told that it was meant to be like a family. It’s not.
I’m going to share something with all of you that I’ve never really shared with other people before in my life. I was bullied in high school by someone who I thought was my best friend, someone I grew up with and someone who I actually loved very much. Her betrayal and hatred towards me for five years caused me to fall into a deep depression to the point of being suicidal. Luckily enough, with the help of some amazing people in my life, I lived and vowed that I would never treat another person the way I was treated even if they were cruel towards me. And that promise I made to myself has stuck with my for the passed year and has even come through in this blog. No hate, respect to all, fight rudeness with kindness.
But this fandom has grown to be nothing but hate. People tormenting other people because they simply have a different opinion, fans tormenting actors and writers over fictional characters, and people literally bullying other people because what they love is different from the other person. Shouldn’t a family be a group of people who accept each other for their differences, flaws, etc?
I’ve seen enough hate and negativity in my own past to last me a lifetime. And I’m tired of seeing it here. I’m tired of seeing things that set off a negative trigger in me almost every time I’m on this site. And that’s a shame because I will truly miss the few positive bits that I loved.
So this is my last message on tumblr. For those of you who enjoyed this blog, thank you. You made it a pretty lovely experience. And I’d like to let you know that this blog will still always be up for people to scroll through the tags and all. It just won’t be running anymore. Feel free to come back and enjoy the older posts. It’ll always be a place for you all to come and just enjoy a more positive environment.
For those people I have befriended on here: If you’d like to exchange personal info to keep talking, I’m going to remain on tumblr for the remainder of today and then until the show airs tomorrow if you’d like to send me an ask.
I want to say thank you to everyone who did make my fandom experience positive and loving. I’ll miss you all so much. I love you guys.